Boyfriend selfcontrol help?

So I have a new boyfriend. He is super amazing, and I am stoked that we are going out. There is like no physical interaction though, all we have done ever is hug twice. Before we went out I liked him a lot, but thought this other guy was cute but a total jerk. So at lunch today I was sitting at the same table as the jerk, and we were talking, and now I just cant stop thinking about how I want to do him. He is a JERK but he is hot.... but I really like my bf. Is this normal, or do I need to feel bad, but I mean I dont wanna relationship with the jerk, just and hour or two.... help please!!!!